Been engaged twice in my life and there is TWO different feelings and thoughts between those relationships.

The FIRST one- Quarrelled ALOT! mostly about our differences in thinking, about not happy with someone in the family, money, jealousy, flirting and pressured with the fact I have to hide my anger n sadness in my smile.
Secondly, the thought about breaking up the relationship occurred a few times even before the engagement.
Thirdly, he was financially unstable and nothing was saved.
Lastly, the thought of how his life would be without me

The SECOND one- Rarely quarrelled, mostly about me being stubborn, rude towards him or anybody. But most of the time my life was filled with laughter.
Secondly, never thought of breaking up. instead his advice was to work things out. he was a good advisor which really shoot u in a spot and made alot of sense, he had the husband material by the way he disciplined his niece n nephews.
Thirdly, he was particular on how we spend our money and he was disciplined with his savings and savings for the future.
Lastly, the though of how my life would be without him.

Analyse and review....